5 Ways To Use Powerless Communication with Livebeam

Communication is key for our day-to-day interactions. Great communication skills go even further to help us build trust and connections with new people that we meet on the streets or online through communication platforms like Livebeam.

While talking to people, being an authoritative, strong, or powerful communicator may portray how certain and convincing what you are saying is, but is it the best way to gain trust and make people you are speaking with comfortable? Not in every situation. Creating genuine connection and friendship sometimes requires you to use powerless communication and in this article, we have compiled five ways you can do that.

5 ways to use powerless communication:

  1. Stay Humble and Humorous

During the conversation, you are going to come across questions or responses that may appear rude or sarcastic. The best way to react is with humorous and humble replies. For example, if someone tries to criticize you for being too versatile and says you have two personalities, you can reply with a question like which one do you like the most?”.

  1. Seek Help

You can use powerless communication to ask for help and advice, and get what you want. For instance if you want to get someone’s opinion about a project you are working on, you can say, “I value your opinion, can you please look at my project and see if you can help me make it better?” This statement does not only make the other person feel important, but there is a sense of humility in it that cannot be ignored.

  1. Three Important Questions

Whenever you are talking to anyone, it is important to ask yourself these three important questions:

  • How can I help this person?
  • What can I learn from them and this conversation?
  • Which ways can I use to let them see my personality?

If you can answer these questions, then you will easily apply powerless communication while talking to anyone.

  1. Be Yourself

Whatever the feeling or intention you have inside you, it will come out eventually — truth is always revealed, you want it or not. Don’t hesitate to share which way you feel about any decisions with your family or coworkers. You shouldn’t sacrifice your true feelings just to be liked by someone. Anyway, anyone with a healthy personality will always listen to you and take your opinion into account. 

  1. Give Your Opinions Like Suggestions

People don’t like to be shut down. It usually sounds commanding and controlling. If by any chance someone was saying something you don’t agree with, it is best to suggest an alternative in a polite manner. For example, if they ask for your phone number on a dating app, you can reply with, “Before giving out my number, I suggest we continue chatting and get to know each other better on this app”, since it is a polite suggestion they will most likely agree to.


Powerless communication is a technique you can use to get what you want or pass your opinion. However, you cannot command people to take your opinion or listen to you by being taught. You need to learn the powerless communication tactics to be able to gain trust and make people comfortable with you. The powerless communication techniques above will help you become a better communicator and achieve your objective in any debate or conversation.

Join Livebeam today and start practicing powerless communication!

Christopher Stern

Christopher Stern is a Washington-based reporter. Chris spent many years covering tech policy as a business reporter for renowned publications. He has extensive experience covering Congress, the Federal Communications Commission, and the Federal Trade Commissions. He is a graduate of Middlebury College. Email:[email protected]

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