I have gotten more than a few questions from men about the best way to do better on Tinder, Bumble, and the other dating apps– From, what’s the best way to make my profile stand out? To, how do I get a charming escort girls from basel to move from chatting in the app to actually meeting up and hooking up?
Now it turns out that I met my wife BEFORE the big explosion in, so I never felt very comfortable answering those questions– I’d be talking out my ass trying to give advice is something that I personally have not mastered…
But I have done quite a bit of research in the last few weeks, and what I found was pretty astounding– and it is backed by real world numbers, statistics, and scientific validity:
Here’s the hard truth– Hardly anyone is getting laid on Tinder, Bumble, etc., and the few that do are only people that are extremely good looking.
But it just makes sense because when all you’ve got time for is a quick swipe, you’re not exactly set up to show off your charm, your wit, your deep personality, your compassion and emotional availability, your maturity, your presence, your mastery of social interactions, your authenticity, the style and animal grace with which you do everything…
Adding to that, something very close to 100% of women who use dating apps have said they NEVER INTENDED to meet anyone with them.
They started (like you did) with just simple curiosity to see what it was, who was out there, what was going on… and then they stuck with it just because it’s kind of fun to look and swipe. The vast majority of women on there use Tinder more like Tetris than match.com.
In fact, in one study, average looking men swiped more than 800 times per meet-up. And that number does not include the wasted hours of profile tweaking, texting, and hoping…
But there is a simple tactic that is breath-taking in it’s simplicity, and you can easily meet 2, 3, or even up to a dozen women in a single night!
It works like this:
You delete Tinder from your phone and you go out in the real world and meet people.
Now there are some HUGE downsides to using this strategy.
First, it takes a lot of energy and motivation to get your ass off of the couch. Second, it involves putting yourself in some uncomfortable positions, potentially you might experience feeling awkward… and, you can so easily avoid that by hanging in, swiping a bit, updating your profile, checking facebook, watching a few viral videos, and then getting off to porn. Ahhhhh! The easy life!
But if you want to meet a ton of REAL women, women that are super-attracted to and still have a shot with them because they can’t just “swipe left” and your gone… women that have a chance to actually notice that emotional maturity, that cool, that animal grace…
And if you want to have real sex with real women, and real relationships with the ones you really like.. and maybe even meet a woman who is so much fun to be with that you STAY with her…
Well, the BEST way to do that is the way we used to do it way back in 2010…
By going out.
And I acknowledge that in many ways, it’s become harder than it was back then because women are very defensive and guarded these days.
But that is also a real opportunity for men who are doing something DIFFERENT from what all of the pickup artists have been teaching men for 15 years (act unimpressed, lean out, alpha body language, negs, kino escalation, female opinions, plowing, push-pull, etc.)
Those old tactics don’t work well anymore, and they have unleashed a giant backlash of angry women who assume that every guy that walks up to them is probably going to be an asshole who is trying to “game” or “trick” them into sex.
This is fucking bananas because women LOVE sex… and plenty of men using PUA tricks are actually good guys… but nobody wants to feel “tricked” into ANYTHING.
The insane amount of “fake news” about sexuality, attraction, relationship, courtship, and the the topic of “cold approach” itself makes meeting women seem incredibly complicated.
It is NOT.
It’s easy, it’s natural, and it’s a ton of fun.
Oh, and also, it’s BY FAR the best way to meet a lot of women, have a lot of sexual adventures, and ultimately find an amazing woman you’d be excited about sharing your life with.
I’m going to share a much better way of meeting women that will handle everything from “approach anxiety” to “fear of getting shot down” to the most important part: How to get a woman to feel strong sexual attraction for YOU (and not just give you a fake phone number or blow you off).
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