Some people are desperate for love. But you can’t force someone to love you back. What you can do, however, is take steps to make him want you enough to spark the thrill. Men are traditional hunters, and they prefer the thrill of the hunt. So what better way to make him fall in love with you than to start a chase? But doing that isn’t easy. Not every guy out there will be interested in you. Since your goal is to make him fall in love with you, we will give you the best methods to do that.
With all that said, let’s start the hunt.
Be Different
Very few guys are into the “basic girl” thing. The dating world is very different from ten and even five years ago. Nowadays, guys have all kinds of ways to meet girls. They use dating apps, slide into Instagram DMs, etc. But your goal isn’t to meet a guy for a fling. You want him to be mad about you. So the best thing to do is to be different. Most guys think of the “basic” or typical female as a person whos only interested in shoes and makeup. Don’t be that girl. Show him that you are different. Show him that you are a salmon in a sea of common bass fishes.
While this analogy makes little sense to you, guys understand it. The analogy refers to being a person that they will actively hunt. He won’t chase you if you’re just another “typical female.” He wants the female that everyone else wants. It’s what guys do and what will make him fall in love with you harder than dropping a steel ball on your foot.
Be Nice
Being different doesn’t mean avoiding him or being rude. Despite what society tells us to believe, men aren’t dumb. And they don’t want to be insulted. The best way to make him lose all interest is to be evasive, act disinterested, or downright rude. If you want him to fall in love with you, you need to be nice.
Being rude is a common complaint men have when they’re in a relationship. A study shows that men prefer nicer women. The reasons for that have to do with the way men respond to signals. If a woman is nice to a man, he will perceive her as more feminine and, in turn, perceive her as an ideal partner. So guys don’t like rude or bad-mouthed women. They won’t like you if you tell them to go away. If you want to make him fall in love with you, act the feminine way and be nice to him.
Make Him Miss You
You might be close friends with your crush, but he shows no feelings for you. You’re desperate for love but can’t get him to fall in love with you. This is a common situation for women as it is for men. Both genders find themselves in these situations, so it’s no secret that guys know how it feels to not be loved back.
The secret to turning a friend into a lover is to withdraw your presence. The logic goes against the previous tip. If you’re getting the sense that he isn’t interested in you, or is bored or tired of you, tip the scale by withdrawing your presence. The reason this works is that men fall in love when they miss you. Once you withdraw your presence, he will give you a call or hit the DMs for a talk. He will notice that you’re avoiding him, and rightfully so. After all, he’s the one that is disinterred in you, not the other way around.
So if you want him to fall in love with you, make him miss you.
Always Be the Best Version Of Yourself
The objective isn’t to change your body type or dye your hair in a particular color to appease him. But that doesn’t mean you shouldn’t look and act your best. Instead of dying your hair blonde just because he has a thing for blondes, keep it nice, tidy, and clean. Wear an outfit that looks good on you, but don’t go overboard. You don’t want to give him the sense you’re dressing up just to flirt with him.
Physical appearances are important. Not only that, but they’re oftentimes instrumental to making the other person fall in love. While looks are important, the way you conduct yourself is even more important. You don’t want to be sleazy. Instead, act your best, and that might just be enough to tip the scales in your favor.
Don’t Try To Change Him
The one way to make him lose all interest in you is to try and change him. It’s the only rule you need to know before getting into a relationship. Sure, the objective is to make him fall in love with you, but you’re only going to lose all progress if you try and change him.
Men have things they’re passionate about. Maybe he’s a die-hard Red Sox fan and watches every game twice a week. Don’t try and change that. Guys hate it when women come in and expect them to change.
